Pool Party Safety Tips
Meeting real people through real-time conversations is what Pool Party is all about. But just like in the real world, safety should always come first. Whether you’re jumping into a live video chat, meeting someone offline, or continuing your connection in messages, here are some important tips to help you stay safe and confident throughout your experience.
Online Safety
Protect Your Personal Information
When chatting face-to-face or messaging, avoid sharing sensitive information like your home address, workplace, daily routines, or financial details. If you’re a parent, please keep information about your children private as well.
Keep Conversations Inside Pool Party
Our platform is designed with safety in mind. Staying on Pool Party allows us to monitor for inappropriate behavior and helps protect your privacy. Be cautious of users who try to move the conversation to third-party apps too quickly.
Beware of Scams and Fake Stories
If someone makes urgent requests for money or shares elaborate stories involving emergencies, travel issues, or needing financial help—it’s a red flag. Never send money or share banking details. Report suspicious behavior right away.
Verify with Video First
Since Pool Party starts with face-to-face video, it’s easier to verify that someone is who they say they are. Avoid continued interaction with users who refuse to show their face or behave strangely on calls.
Use the Block and Report Tools
If someone makes you uncomfortable, violates your boundaries, or engages in harmful behavior, block and report them. Your reports help us keep the platform safe and respectful for everyone.
Meeting In Person
Take Your Time
Just because you’ve had a great video chat doesn’t mean you need to meet in person right away. Ask questions, trust your gut, and proceed at your own pace.
Meet in Public
If you choose to meet offline, always do so in a public place with lots of people around—like a coffee shop or park. Never meet at someone’s home or in a secluded location for the first time.
Share Your Plans
Let a trusted friend or family member know where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and when to expect you back. Share your live location if possible and keep your phone fully charged.
Be in Control of Your Transportation
Use your own transportation when possible. Avoid relying on your date for a ride. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, you should be able to leave immediately.
Stay Aware
Know your limits when it comes to alcohol or other substances. If someone pressures you to drink or use drugs, or behaves inappropriately, end the interaction.
Don’t Leave Personal Items Unattended
Keep your belongings (like your drink, phone, or bag) with you at all times. Drink only what you’ve seen prepared by a trusted server.
Listen to Your Instincts
If something feels off, trust that feeling. You’re never obligated to stay. Your safety is more important than being polite.
LGBTQ+ Community Safety
Pool Party is inclusive, but the world isn’t always. If you’re traveling, especially internationally, be aware of local laws regarding LGBTQ+ individuals. In areas where it may be unsafe, consider using extra discretion when sharing personal details or meeting new people.
For resources and legal information by region, visit ILGA World.
Sexual Health & Consent
Practice Safe Intimacy
Use protection to reduce the risk of STIs. Some infections can spread even without symptoms, so regular testing is recommended. Vaccines are available for some STIs like HPV and Hepatitis B.
Know Your Status
Stay informed about your own health and get tested regularly. Honest communication with partners about sexual health is part of a safe and respectful relationship.
Consent is Key
Consent must be clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing. If you or your partner feel unsure at any point, pause and talk. If someone is intoxicated, asleep, or unable to communicate, they cannot give consent. Always respect boundaries.
Support and Resources
Even with precautions, uncomfortable or harmful experiences can happen. If you ever feel unsafe, report it to Pool Party immediately. You are not alone. Here are a few resources for help, support, and guidance:
- RAINN (Sexual assault support): rainn.org
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 (U.S. and Canada)
- ThroughLine: throughline.org – global directory for mental health and crisis support
If you are in immediate danger, contact local law enforcement or emergency services.
At Pool Party, your safety is our priority. Jump in with confidence, connect with care, and always trust your instincts.
Stay human. Stay safe.